If you are a woman who loves women, this message is for you…

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My name is Leah Cochrane and this is my website.  I made it for you.  I suspect you are here because your heart has led you here.  You are here because you are looking for something that you haven’t yet found in your love relationship.

Are you searching for the woman of your heart?  Or maybe you’ve found her, but it feels like something is missing between the two of you, and you don’t know what it is.

 

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It’s ironic, isn’t it, that women who love women are  blessed by being able to be lovers, best friends and sisters, all rolled up in one fantastic relationship, yet making that relationship stay vibrant and long-lived can be so very difficult.

That is a lot of pressure on one relationship.

And then there is the whole thing about how that super-amazing “in-love” feeling you both think will last forever, that instead fades and disappears.
What’s up with that?

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It’s heartbreaking, isn’t it?  A lot of us make that mistake–we’ve all done it–mistaking that initial, intense hormone storm for love.

What would you say if I told you that you don’t have to go through that awful downward slide out of “in love” anymore?  What if you could still have all those thrilling, lovely hormones, only you could actually learn to recognize the difference between real love with hormones, from a hormone storm that had nothing to do with love?  That would be really good to know, wouldn’t it?

 Here’s a bit of fun and food for thought for you.  Take my quiz, below, and see what you learn.

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What is your “Inviting Love” IQ? Take this mini-quiz and find out:

Q1: How many coffee dates does it take to find the one person who is right for you? Click here to find out.

Q2: How likely is it that you would recognize your one true love if you met her unexpectedly? Click here for the answer.

Q3: Are you 100% certain you are 100% available¹ right now if you did meet the love of your life? Click here, and be surprised.

Q4: How do you improve your strategy for finding lasting love, especially if you haven’t had a strategy before? Click here to see.

How did you do on the quiz?

If you’re like most women, you probably have some gaps in your strategy.  But that’s ok.  Because you already have inside you everything needed to invite Love and Intimacy into your life and into your primary relationship.  You might not yet know how to access this knowledge, but it is there, because it is a part of you– the knowledge of what you absolutely require from your relationship in order for it to meet your needs, confidence about your true feelings, self knowledge, a sense of belonging, and self love.  

These are some of the strengths that live inside you.  It may take some effort to recognize those particular strengths that are yours, and to unleash the power of them to work for you on your relationship goals.

Here’s the thing–it is unlikely that your true love will ring your doorbell (but stranger things have happened!).

I’m here to tell you that it’s not as difficult as you might think, once you know what to do.

Life doesn’t have to be this endless gray landscape where you long for a deep and vibrant connection with a woman who is your right match.  It isn’t hopeless, and it isn’t beyond your reach, even if you feel that way right now.

No worries.  Help has arrived.

I am someone who can show you a totally new way to invite in romance, creativity, mystery, intimacy and true love into your life.  

Think about that, about what it would be like to glance over and find yourself looking into the eyes of the woman who is your true mate in every sense of the word.  Even if you are a practical, feet-firmly-planted kind of woman, you can open those inner doors to the knowledge of how to bring love and intimacy into your life.  And I can show you how to do that.

Portrait Of Mature Woman Standing Against WallI offer step-by-step explorations, at your pace, into the beliefs, mindsets and habits that have kept you from finding and keeping the love you desire so much.

Many women have past histories that intrude on present relationships.  I know how to guide you into healing the wounds of your past so that your emotional scars, wherever they came from, no longer interfere with your future chances at lasting love.

 You are a unique individual, and you need a unique and individual approach to finding or creating the relationship and love you want.   My personalized offerings are designed to give you exactly that.

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Middle Aged Woman Stretching During ExerciseThink of what it would feel like to have the kind of relationship you’ve always wanted with the woman who is the right one for you.  Imagine what it would be like to know how to get there from where you are right now.

If you are single and seeking, it means no more frustration, no more disappointment, no more lonely online evenings, and no more repetitive, discouraging coffee dates. Even more important, no more disappointing relationships in which you struggle with yourself, knowing she isn’t the one, but wondering if you should stop being so picky and just take what you can get and be grateful.

(My answer to that idea is  a really big ‘NO.’  You should not ever settle.  You are not too picky.  You are not asking for too much.)

 If you are a couple who loves each other, but feels like there should be more to this business of being in a committed relationship, think about what it would feel like if, instead of conflict or loneliness within your relationship, you had instead a deep sense of belonging and togetherness.  Think about how it would feel to know with certainty that you were loved unconditionally for all that you are, both the perfect parts and the flawed parts.

How would it feel to be the person who was able to have that same level of regard for your partner, to have a love that says “yes” instead of “no” and that serves as a foundation for the other parts of your lives?  How would it feel to have all the peace, companionship, intimacy and fun you two could possibly want?

Pretty short hair girl with black jacket posing against a wall Having a desire for lasting love is your heart’s song, your higher self telling you to move ahead, to take the leap.

What would it take to ask for the help and support you need to leap into the search for Intimacy and Love.  It is not asking for too much to have true love in your life.

If you are ready for a different outcome call me so we can talk about it, or if you like, schedule a free Breakthrough to Love Strategy Session.  Use the “schedule now” button on the right side of the page, or better yet, call or text me at 415-710-6615 so we can set up a time to have your free Strategy Session. 

 I designed this approach for you–because you’ve tried a lot of things, and nothing has worked to give you the love and companionship you really want.  The other reason I created this new approach to relationships is that I know the love of your life is waiting for you.

 Of course, there are no guarantees in life, or in love, but what do you have to lose by giving it a try?  It won’t cost you anything but time to check out my approach, and invite in romance and fun while you’re at it.

I love my approach and seeing it work with women like you, who deserve to be loved just the way you are.  You get my very best work from my many years of experience and my own personal success, along with some curated portions from other superb experts.

 In addition to the portion that is the personalized experience I’ve created to address the unique needs and challenges of women who love women, my approach also includes two stellar, proven programs, Conscious Dating© and Radical Romance©, from the highly reputable Relationship Coaching Institute, as well as other personalized tools, techniques and wisdom developed by me and other relationship experts, healers and teachers.

This is Relationship Coaching for Lesbians and Queer Women and Bi Women, like you’ve never seen before.

I’d love you to schedule a Breakthrough to Love Strategy Session with me.  We can use this opportunity to get you started with a free Jump-Start Strategy so you can begin your journey to the loving intimacy you really want, whether or not we work together more.  

Use the scheduling button to the right, or call or text me at 415-710-6615.  You can also email me at leah@leahcochrane.com.  Breakthrough to Love Strategy Sessions are always free, but available times are limited so don’t wait!

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Here are the answers to the mini-quiz:

A1: None.  You need to be the one others are looking for.  You need to be the “Chooser.”¹ Return to quiz

A2. Possibly not. Unless you have established within yourself your requirements for the relationship you seek, you may not recognize the love of your life even if you meet face to face. It’s not all just about attraction. You need to be 100% ready to recognize your soul mate when you finally do meet. Return to quiz

A3: Being 100% available means you are not encumbered in another relationship, even if it isn’t serious, that you have worked out and are clear of all the baggage from your last relationship, and it means that you have done the work to know what you want with a partner and where to look to get it. Return to quiz

A4: You could work with any of a number of fine coaches and therapists–or you could enlist the power of a System.  I designed my System with you in mind, no matter who you are, how old you are, or who you dream of loving. Return to quiz

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Want to see if my approach will work for you?  Call or text me for a Breakthrough to Love Strategy Session. 415-710-6615.  Or use the scheduling button on the right.  Or email me at leah@leahcochrane.com.

 You deserve to have the kind of love you have dreamed of having, but you have to take the first step.

 

©Leah Cochrane (2017)
¹©RCI, Inc. concepts and programs used with permission